It was with much regret that I was unable to attend Paul's funeral service yesterday, due to some minor personal circumstances. It's my desire to honor his memory and also in many ways the memory of Helen as well, with these words, as they were both like 2nd parents to me growing up. Tom and I, spent countless hours together growing up as boys and into young men, at their homes both in Toronto and London. They were both so willing to welcome me into their family life, even though they already had a busy life with the rest of Tom'a siblings, in particular his brothers, with whom I also spent a lot of time. Some of my best memories were born out of these early days. There are many small things that I take for granted that I owe a debt of gratitude to Paul personally. I know he was an advid skier through out his life and this love of sport and the outdoors was in Tom's blood, so I'm so greatfull for the many treks up to Collingwood over the years, where I was givien the honored role of "son # 5". I still love to ski to this day. Paul was also instrumental in helping me to choose my career path when he had a little heart to heart with me in my late teens. Using his keen skills as a counsellor, unlocked some of what makes me tick, which continue to help me in my life as an adult. And lastly, and not the least important, I still enjoy a Rootbeer float from time to time... I remember that being one of his favorites. I want to wish the whole Lappala Clan, and in particular my good friend and brother Tom, well... and I trust that the Lord will continue to bless you all, as both your parents have given you a wonderful family legacy. Much love , Kev.
